It takes two to Tango! I tell that to clients all the time when we’re looking at relationships that aren’t going the way they want. It’s easy to blame the other person or people causing you stress, but you play a role in the dance of every relationship. NewVu brings the New out of YOU! I offer what I call “relationship therapy for one”—so what exactly is that?! I help you come to know yourself deeply- in doing so, we recreate past experiences that seem to have shaped your perspective permanently. These experiences tend to reoccur without you even being aware of them, and it’s important to know that redirecting thoughts and negative energy can be learned. Why hold on to thoughts that ultimately hinder your happiness and your goals? I love helping you find the patterns in your relationships or in your career that aren’t working; let’s repair the damage, and let’s also deal with the pain. I guide you through a complete discovery process. We start by building a real connection in a therapeutic relationship where we can focus on your needs and start to uncover the root cause of what’s not going the way you want. Most of the time it’s not even what you think!
Usually the memories or family dynamics that create the most damage are those that were initiated by some sort of “protection” or “defense.” We’re able to discover exactly what those are together as it happens in our relationship, and that’s where the magic happens. In addition, a series of questions can help reveal the general patterns that you seem to avoid or be unable to change yet keep seeing over and over. The breakthrough is organic, pure…and most say it’s “beyond uplifting!” You will realize that helping yourself create a new type of relationship with me can shift the dynamic of any relationship outside of the therapy office. When this is done individually, you have the opportunity to self-reflect without interruptions, a highly effective process! Once that spark inside you ignites, everything becomes clearer because now you understand why you are not achieving the results you want to help fulfill your life. You can now choose to make the conscious decisions you want, shift thoughts and ultimately move on to building the lasting healthy relationships you deserve.